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Wende Margaret—Not Dead Yet So Active Again For Now

@southern-ingenue.bsky.social

With a fuck, fuck here. And a fuck, fuck there. Here a fuck. There a fuck. I don’t give a fuck, fuck. Writer. Mostly creative nonfiction. Fmr career govt auditor. Specialized in fraud examination and investigations. Dog “soccer mommy”. I only look sweet.

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Wende Margaret, the First of Her Name, Presents...Jun 29, 2026

A Treatise on Marriage

In response to: https://substack.com/profile/2078975-craig-youngkrantz/note/c-284404791?r=4wiyyq&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action If your love and attraction must be negotiated, your marriage will 100% end in divorce, estrangement, or worse, suspicious death.

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Wende Margaret, the First of Her Name, Presents...Jun 24, 2026

Well. Here We Are.

It took nearly 30 years to be able to write my thoughts again after I was killed in an accident. Verbal communication was still shite. It is still shite. I don't know what switch was flipped in my head, that resulted in having words again, when I think. I’ve not had that since the wreck. And that is what it felt like. As if a switch was flipped. A few years later, as I look back, it seems more gradual, but only since my brain was “switched back on”. Disappointingly, I remain in a coma-vegetative...

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